The Sex-Starved Relationship
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The Sex-Starved Relationship

December 6, 2018

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Not having enough sex in a relationship could sound like a rather trivial issue, to be laughed off in front of others. But in truth, a shortage of sex threatens relationships like almost nothing else – and deserves thought and attention. For gifts and more from The School of Life, visit our online shop:
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  • Reply Toffsen100 December 6, 2018 at 3:06 pm

    God knows how many hours we talked about sex. She basically know all my fantasies, all the porn categories I watch and the weird stuff I used to watch, I constantly try new things, buy new toys, etc. Very affirmative of her body all the time. Yet it took me a year for her to be comfortable with eating her out, and everything is else is still a nogo besides normal sex. And she still doesn't know what she likes after 4 years, is too afraid to tell me (after telling her I even would be okay with pegging, submissive stuff and bdsm if she is the one doing it). I mean we talk a really a lot, and feels like honest open conversations. I just dont know anymore.

  • Reply George Forni December 6, 2018 at 3:06 pm


  • Reply Jenn Stephenson December 6, 2018 at 3:06 pm

    I am very sex starved. And I always communicate that and how it makes me feel ugly and unwanted and self conscious about myself. And nothing ever changed. I feel like I have a roommate.

  • Reply Anonkyou December 6, 2018 at 3:06 pm

    Gimp is perfectly adequate for graphic design. Especially learning. I don't use it myself professionally but I know what it's capable of.
    Don't blame the tools, blame the lack of understanding.

  • Reply No Way December 6, 2018 at 3:06 pm

    some of the comments on this video..yikes..oof… no wonder u have unsatisfying sex lives

  • Reply Benjamin Thompson December 6, 2018 at 3:06 pm

    This is a good reason why a lot of men stay single nowadays it's just not worth it to have a relationship . Women seem like they're wired to be unsatisfied constantly want more . And when women aren't satisfied usually the first thing to go is sex . And for the man who's in a relationship he can't have sex with anybody else he can't have sex with his woman . That's an unhappy man . And the truth is most women would be happier with less stuff more sex . But sex is their trump card is the highest power they have in a relationship and women will use it to try to get what they want . Inside dangerous slope and in the end it's just not worth it for men

  • Reply Marvin Guigar December 6, 2018 at 3:06 pm

    Me and my wife are like best friends there's a lot of communication we talked but there's no sex in relationship if any I get about two times a month she does not initiate it I don't know what to do

  • Reply Marvin Guigar December 6, 2018 at 3:06 pm

    Four times a month and that's a lot of sex to me try like 2 times a month

  • Reply iBeOnThat Kryptonite December 6, 2018 at 3:06 pm

    Jesus Christ….

  • Reply dj7oya December 6, 2018 at 3:06 pm

    Used to happen to me. It comes down to the person realizing sex is important to her. If you are there all the fucking time they want, why the fuck would they listen to you if you are not their priority?
    I even remember once I went down on her and I suddenly stopped while she was beginning to enjoy it and left the house. Worked like charm for a while. I had previously tried to talk to her millions of times, for about 4 f*cking years, and this was one of the events that I recall to have some efficacy. I told her lots of times how it was humiliating to kinda "ask for sex". You feel bad because you start to have lustful desires on other people and idk, you obviously see it isn't the right place for you to be in a relationship.
    Always work on yourself and never let the other person take you for granted.

  • Reply Wanita W N December 6, 2018 at 3:06 pm


  • Reply Grape Ape December 6, 2018 at 3:06 pm

    Well sometimes it’s hard to kiss the lips at night, that has chewed your ass all day. And the older you get for some people the Desire to have sex is just not there. And for men they aren’t raised to Express there feeling, and that’s allot of women Fault they want a man to be tough, but get mad if he is, then they want a man to be Sensitive, but when he is then he’s labeled gay.

  • Reply jacesaces15 December 6, 2018 at 3:06 pm

    My parents marriage failed because of the lack of intimacy, I got married and my partner and I seemed to be going down the same path. It took Several conversations and a whole other level of commitment to get our sex life back on track. The more sex we have,the closer we are, the closer we are the more we talk, and hang out, and the more we hang out and converse about our lives and feelings, the more sex we have. It's a beautiful cycle.

  • Reply em1ownerify December 6, 2018 at 3:06 pm

    You are to always court a woman…

  • Reply Kaepora Gaebora December 6, 2018 at 3:06 pm

    For men sex is about penis in vagina while a women is screaming.

  • Reply Shiirene sims December 6, 2018 at 3:06 pm

    It was hard to watch this, the creepy images are disturbing. Why not just use people, without the creatures…

  • Reply amal zuhair December 6, 2018 at 3:06 pm

    I guess the biggest factor is having kids when you have to wake up at 6:30 in the morning and have a whole bunch of responsibilities sex is pushed aside and becomes less and less romantic.

  • Reply Gregory Thomas December 6, 2018 at 3:06 pm

    Blah, blah, blah. Sometimes you’re just stuck with someone who inflates their ego by exercising the ability to deny you pleasure knowing you’ll be considered a deviant if you seek it elsewhere Wedding rings have a way of turning attention girlfriends into malicious Hell wives.

  • Reply Fran Kunstek Games December 6, 2018 at 3:06 pm

    What if there is a (mental)/ health condition which prohibits a couple to have intercourse (e.g. in my case… vaginismus)?

  • Reply Mackenzie Patten December 6, 2018 at 3:06 pm

    In this scenario, I’m the one who doesn’t want sex. My boyfriend of over a year wants it all the time though. I have no idea why I lost every ounce of my libido, I really don’t. We used to bow close, but now I would rather just curl up with him and watch a movie. There are times when he gets angry with me out of no where and it really does hurt. A few months back, I even found that he was buying pictures and videos from random girls on Kik. If anyone has any advice on what I can do on my side, it would be greatly appreciated

  • Reply Gabriela Arango December 6, 2018 at 3:06 pm

    Please do a video on how to communicate properly with yout partner about sex

  • Reply Christopher Kim December 6, 2018 at 3:06 pm

    Usually the lack of sex comes from my utter disgust for my partner

  • Reply Tinamarie ADVM6 December 6, 2018 at 3:06 pm

    A narssasist won't have sex with u. It's control and abuse.

  • Reply cakewatcher December 6, 2018 at 3:06 pm

    Liver and stomach?

  • Reply Sander Broekmate December 6, 2018 at 3:06 pm

    It made me so frustrated
    Sommetimes i drive in my car and want to drive it at hard as i can in a tree
    Now after 10 years of humiliating i lost intrest. i am stil maried but i just dont give a fuck anymore. I'll stay for the children but if the youngest one is going studiën
    Or just live on her own ,i am out
    Sorry for my bad english i am from the netherlands

  • Reply Jon Salt December 6, 2018 at 3:06 pm

    She's gay…He's gay….case closed

  • Reply Vanecia Greene December 6, 2018 at 3:06 pm

    So the problem is seeking validation through sexual acts instead of developing real intimacy with a partner.

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