losing my v card, masturbation, and other sexual adventures
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losing my v card, masturbation, and other sexual adventures

January 12, 2019



Views:426910|Rating:4.97|View Time:19:6Minutes|Likes:49845|Dislikes:310
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In an aggressively demonetized video, I dish out answers to every sexual question you might have had (and some you probably never asked for but here they are anyways). Topics in this girl talk include sex for the first time, casual sex, period sex, navigating porn as a lady, masturbation, feeling confident in your naked bod, kinks, oral sex, social expectations and pressures regarding sex, and, of course, how frickin weird penises are.

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ON ME
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green pants: nasty gal (similar:
star choker: en route ( use code BESTDRESSED for 20% off!)
long necklace: mejuri
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what’s your name? ashley
what’s your instagram? @best.dressed
how old are you? 20 (born in 1998)
how tall are you? 5’5″
what’s your ethnicity? half british and half burmese
what equipment do you use to film?
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➭ editing: final cut pro

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35 Comments

  • Reply bestdressed January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    lol pls don’t make fun of my nipples

  • Reply Gabbie R January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    Thank you so much for making this video! I lost my virginity before a lot of my friends so I never really had anyone to talk to about it with. You’re videos are so amazing, thank you so much for making this!

  • Reply Tan Aiko January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    Sad to say but I learned more than I'll ever probably learn from school in this video. Thank you so so so much and even though this might be unnecessary for a 15 year old yet but I'd like to be prepared. Where I live even our parents dodge the birds and the bees talk because apparently it's too "inappropriate for children our age" but I think it's probably better for us to know than to go out and be oblivious as to what to do. I hear them talk criticize people of different sexualities and honestly even though I'm straight it's really frustrating for them not to accept people that are just a bit different than their usual friends and family. I'm so sorry this turned out to be such a long rant and probably filled with a lot of spelling or grammar mistakes but I'm Chinese so yea treat my dignity with care pls

  • Reply Park Jimothy January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    I think i needed to hear this. Learnt more in this than in school. Dont know what the point of school is if i go out feeling sad and sad

  • Reply Upulasi Aloaina January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    Ok youtube, I finally watched it

  • Reply Seasons of Eleanor January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    Splitting the cost of the morning after pill – i love that, always thought the girl bought it * patriarchy*** but obviously it’s both peoples fault so of course they should split the cost

  • Reply Tan Aiko January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    Thank god I got to see this before it gets demonitized

  • Reply biTch January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    imagine this accidentally plays on amazon alexa

  • Reply Sonia Chen January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    lol can u pls film more videos abt these?

  • Reply Maria Carrera January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    yas queen! honestly you are genuinely the best youtube from the states i'm subscribes to

  • Reply Alice Woodfield January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    thank you for making this video. i’m 17 and never had sex although i’ve had a boyfriend. as the years have progressed, i’ve gradually felt more and more pressure about having sex and sexual experiences. personally, i want to wait to have sex with the right person, someone who i trust and love but with people all around me having sexual experiences, there’s pressure to ‘step up my game’ – if you get me lol. this is such an important topic, especially for teenage girls who may feel pressured or worried about how they have/haven’t had sex and the stigmas surrounding sex. thank you 🙂

  • Reply Leah Krisha Tabigue January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    #RESPECT

  • Reply Leah Krisha Tabigue January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    #RESPECT

  • Reply Sophie Molhoek January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    Inverted nipple gang

  • Reply Nimra Tanveer January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    EDUCATION

  • Reply Bo Naber January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    man i fucking love this videooo you are so open and honest about everything, i hope every teenage girl sees this

  • Reply Toinali Aye January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    I fucking love you.. Preaachhhh

  • Reply en kiki January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    Btw thank you so much for sharing your thoughts on sexual experience! I would say it made me feel more confutable with thinking about sex. There was one moment I thought there were something wrong with me but actually naaaaa. Thank you and have a beautiful sex life!

  • Reply Mei Ling Tong January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    Ashley for president of the world <3

  • Reply en kiki January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    I wonder what is kinky sex

  • Reply Laura Leão da Terra Pinheiro January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    you know you have a problem when youre afraid to like this video

  • Reply Ariel Harrison Bowie January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    thx for being the big sis some of us don't have!!!! agree so much with u you go girl!!!!!

  • Reply kiki M January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    lmao i was watching with my cousin and all of a sudden a wholesome coversation abt sex blares out:KILL ME

  • Reply Kimchi Soju January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    I love this video so much, but not solely this video lol. I'm so happy there is a youtuber who's so honest and open, thank you for posting this video and willing to talk about it all!!

  • Reply zeia oo January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    freaking relating to you on so many counts and loving how you're so candid about all these things, I wished I was able to watch this video when I was 15 and growing into myself <3 good job Ashley!!

  • Reply Marie Bothmer January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    THANK YOU

  • Reply zeia oo January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    also regarding the hymen CAN U IMAGINE THOSE POOR WOMEN WHO GOT SHAMED IN THE PAST FOR NOT BLEEDING DURING THEIR FIRST SEX AND THUS NOT A VIRGIN BUT ACTLY IT MIGHT BE BECAUSE THE GUYS DICK IS JUST TOO SMALL TO STRETCH THE HYMEN AND BLEED IT eugh

  • Reply zeia oo January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    I agree that the sexual debut (heh) should be with someone that you know will be looking out for you, and that you can trust, even if it may not be the most romantic thing. So that the other person will not pressure you into something you're not comfortable with or make you feel ashamed for being inexperienced (but wtf they make you feel ashamed for being experienced too so w00000t females just can't win).

  • Reply Jana Meyhoff January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    Thank you so much !

  • Reply celestialrosee January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    honestly thank you so much for making this video

  • Reply Ruth A January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    i'm crying so hard right now, i share literally every single opinion and view on sex in this video. i didn't think there was anyone outspoken enough who shared what i felt and thought. thank you so much for this video, i was really starting to think that i was weird. i hope you would be willing for people to dm or ask you about stuff relating to the stuff you said in this video!! :((

  • Reply Lauren Galvez January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    mad respect. excellent video.

  • Reply Chrissy Dimos January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    Just my little take on the whole porn/masturbation topic:
    I think that porn is anything you use to feel comfortable/turned on for masturbation or sex. I think its great that ashley mentioned bellesa and pornography in general, but also keep in mind that you dont need to limit yourself to that. Use music, books, atmoshpere – literally whatever is going to make you feel comfortable.

    The reason i say this is because personally i dont get that turned on by porn videos and use other methods, so i dont want others to be discouraged if it doesnt work for them either (i had an experience where i opened up to a friend, and they didnt necessarily have a bad reaction, but it made me feel really unsexy and ashamed for a really long time after – and then i realised i shouldnt give a shit about how i somehow didnt meet someone elses expectations for what porn and masturbation is supposed to be) . So dont be afraid or ashamed to try out some options and see what is best for you, its your body.

    Also, just a sidenote, masturbation doesnt necessarily have to be overly sexual – you could just be bored, want to sleep better or to releave cramps (i know ashley already mentioned this one). Its a tool for making you body feel good, use it however you need it

  • Reply Simone Conlon January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    I found your channel tonight. I’m 22. I have had a few partners, 3 long time relationships too. Casual sex is more new to me and I have been the least confident I’ve ever been in my life. Thank you so much for making me feel reassured. Also, being choked is hot but you need to make sure your partner knows how so you do not get hurt. Communication is key to sex. And from what I’ve learned, do it sober, or at least as sober as possible for both parties. Alcohol might make you more willing to approach who you want to have sex with but it ruins the fun of it and both peoples sensitivity in their genitalia .

  • Reply Saskia k January 12, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    if you are feeling unconfident about certain parts of u and happen to live in the UK, i highly recommend ‘naked attraction’ on channel 4 catch up it’s so so great as it denormalises nudity and is very sex positive!!

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